redha..

sometimes when we lost something we become depressed..we start thinking about ourselves and start looking for anything to be blamed..i want to share the word 'redha'..i'm not saying about people but just a reminder for us...sometimes when i lost something i start to think negatives..too much to be blamed..and started to rebel..hahhaha..to show my dissatisfaction..started imagining myself went to do something stupid...however i will always have this word (redha)in myself...when i started thinking by brain not my emotion then i know that i hve to accept for whatever things that already happened..i don't know either this type of behavior is good or bad..ther'r people said that sometimes we need to defence ourselves..not just redha..some says if i want to become a good lawyer i need to remove this type of thinking..i don't know??in my opinion, if we had done our best and we didn't get what we want then i need to redha...but sometimes instinct  will lead us to the truth..but sometimes we're wrong..so, that's why we need to redha and leave to Allah...